As the rank members of the swapping world continue to increase with astonishing rapidity one thing becomes quite evident. There is a good deal of undeniably homosexual activity going on in the swapping world. A great number of those who embrace the new, "Sexual Freedom," are females who find the lesbian act to be as enjoyable as copulation.
Many women engage in lesbian acts to please their husbands. Many truly hard-core lesbians seek admittance into swapping groups because of the deviate practices they know to be popular within such groups. Many true lesbians find they can meet attractive women, whom they would not have met under any other circumstances, in such swapping groups.
The shocking truth is that a surprising number of females are engaging in homosexual relations with members of their own sex. In THE LESBIAN IN GROUP LOVE, authors Matt and Kathleen Galant note…
"In one survey we found that an astonishing 78% of the females involved in wife-swapping are willingly engaging in lesbian sex acts in a number of their wife-swapping contacts." (12)
This leads us to conclude there is a great deal of lesbian and bisexual activity being indulged in in the swapping world. Statistics indicate that many wives participate in lesbian acts to please their mates.
Another interesting development is the fact that stag movies feature a high percentage of lesbian acts in their films. Such pornographic films are bought by a predominantly male audience. It becomes quite evident that viewing lesbian acts pleases a male audience.
As Matt and Kathleen Galant note in THE LESBIAN IN GROUP LQVE.,…
"The majority of males involved seeing or reading about lesbian activity and received sexual stimulation from seeing or reading about this activity. The survey also indicates that a majority of the men in wife-swapping encourage their wife to engage in a homosexual contact." (12)
The same author further notes…
"It is interesting to note that 83% of the males interviewed and surveyed admit that they have at one time or another encouraged their wife to experiment with a homosexual experience." (12)
Many wives are indeed practicing lesbians. As the same authors note in THE LESBIAN IN GROUP LOVE…
"A number of psychologists point out that often a true lesbian gets married and engages in heterosexual acts with her husband in order to have children. The maternal instinct of women; which can only be satisfied through heterosexual contacts, are not lacking in the homosexual females. Many case histories*… indicate that a number of lesbians marry, get pregnant, and then desert their husband to return to their homosexual life. Still others, particularly in situations where they are the dominant personality on the marriage, raise their family and remain married for the security of a home, but continue their homosexual practices openly."(12)
This history given by Mickey Dulaney, formerly Karen Krump, will give testimony to the fact that many married women use the cloak of matrimony for their own personal gain while achieving their greatest thrill in a passioned embrace with a member of their own sex.
Mickey Dulaney is married. She is 37, attractive, with short curly brown hair and sensual blue eyes. Mickey has lips that are full and voluptuous. She is married to a man who is considerably older than herself. Harold is 49 but considered virile by other swingers. Mickey finds it ironical that her husband encourages her to have gay relations."
"Do lesbians have a place in the swap world…,?" inquires Mickey Dulaney. "You'd better believe it. More than 50% of my swapping contacts are with other women. Women who would flatly turn me down if I approached them on the streets fall into my arms at their husband's request! In this crazy mixed-up swap game anything is possible. I found out long ago that the best way to meet other women for sex without becoming a publicly known deviate is to join a swap club."
"The fact that my husband is a virile swinger helps too! Few of my female contacts suspect that I am almost 100% homosexual in my responses. The truth is I don't enjoy sex with men. Not even with my own husband. Fortunately Harry is like a jack-rabbit when sufficiently aroused before sex, I can get the whole unpleasant act over within a matter of minutes. My hubby makes good money as a stockbroker. I have wealthy friends, an estate and private pool, a thick check-book. Plus I have a daughter who may one day become homosexual, Marriage is tolerable for many reasons. The main one being that a known deviate has a rough time in this world!"
"There are lots of things about me that my hubby doesn't suspect. My name by birth is Karen Krump. I even had a prison record before I had my name legally changed. Inside I'm still the same girl I was then. Only I've tried to refine my basic instinct and fool the public a bit about myself."
"When I was eighteen I got mixed up in a burglary with a guy. I was sentenced to a woman's prison. I'd have gotten of f easier if I'd been a minor. But I had just legally become an adult. Girls in prison turn into lesbians almost overnight! I know. I was thrown into a tiny narrow cell with three other girls. I saw four bunks on the wall. I was given the top one!"
"I didn't like men much by the time I got to prison anyway… " Mickey noted. "I'd been jilted a few times. The guy, Al, who pulled the robbery had rammed a red-hot cigar up my puss! So I was pretty bitter by the time I hit that cell!"
"I received a very enthusiastic greeting from my new roommates! One big heavy-set gal stood looking me over like a fat cow on an auction block. Two other gals lay on their bunks. Both the blonde and the brunette surveyed me with cool interest. The heavy-set gal, Sandy, indicated my pad was the one on top!"
"Is this your first trip-baby?" Sandy questioned, gaping at the full-sized breasts under my prison garb. "You're cute kid. After seven years with these two any face is a welcome change. This is Kris and Ruth. Watch yourself around Kris-she's got a mean temper. She's serving a life sentence for killing a man."
"It didn't take me long…," Mickey confided, "to figure out that 99% of the girls were lesbians. The remaining 1% were compulsive masturbators. I watched girls hugging and kissing one another. When the lights went out at night you heard the damdest noises. Sandy began making erotic overtures towards me. I tried to stay to myself. But one night Kris and Ruth attacked me, pulling my arm behind my back."
"You're driving Sandy up the wall-baby…,!" Kris blubbered. "Give her a thrill. She'll make it worth your while. I bet you've never been woman-handled before. You look innocent. Sandy claims she goes 'nuts' at night laying in her bunk listening to you masturbate!"
"I couldn't very well object…," Mickey grinned. "Ruth and Kris pushed me against the cold steel bars. They removed my clothing. Then they shoved me down on Sandy's bunk. Ruth covered my mouth with hers. I felt her tongue shoved half-way down my throat. I had no chance to scream. I didn't want to!"
"The sensations as Kris sucked my nipples drove me crazy! Sandy was kneeling on the cold floor. She was tenderly kissing up the soft inside of my thighs! Her soft hands fondled my buttocks. I found myself helplessly involved in a lesbian love session with three hungry dikes!"
"I'd never experienced multiple orgasms before…!," Mickey noted. "But I certainly had my share that night. That soft tongue moving back and forth over my aching clitoris drove me wild. Kris sucked first one tit and then the other. Sandy had me skyrocketing over my peak in no time! Then they switched positions. Kris blew me off next! And then Ruth!
"I ended up naked in Sandy's bunk. I cried as I promised to be her lover. After that I had no doubts but that I was a true lesbian in my responses. Before I got out of prison I had maybe a dozen different girls off and on. I found that way of making love much more satisfactory than anything I'd ever done before."
"One girl there who claimed she was 'bisexual' advised me to get married if I found a rich man. She advised me to have a family and become fulfilled as a woman and have my fun with other women on the side. She gave me sensible advice. I moved to a bigger city. After I got off probation I had my name changed. I worked in a business district. I met Harold my husband while eating lunch in a crowded restaurant. Harry plied me with whisky and seduced me. I was unable to respond until he went into the bathroom to relieve himself. Then I masturbated myself while thinking about a woman and got myself creamy with my own liquid. Harry was deceived into thinking he made me have an orgasm!"
"I went to the village-yes-Greenwich Village now and then…," Mickey noted. "After Harry asked me to marry him I got to thinking about the advantages such a marriage could offer. Harry paid the rent on my apartment. He came by three or four times a week for sex. I always masturbated myself while he was in the toilet and fooled him into thinking he made me 'come'. When I saw how simple Harry was to fool I rushed him into a quick marriage!"
"I got myself pregnant in no time at all I felt a strong maternal instinct towards my daughter, Kimberlee. I call my ten-year old child, Kim, but Harry calls her Lee. We disagree on everything else so our daughter is no exception!"
"Kim may very well turn out to be homosexual…," Mickey noted. "I caught my daughter masturbating Judy, her closest girlfriend, one night. I had been hearing these light moans from her room. I crept towards the half-open door. I could see Kim kissing Judy and moving her hand under the girl's gown! I never reported such activity to Harold. Frankly if my daughter turns out gay I won't mind. I used to fondle her a little when she was a baby. I guess you might say I taught my kid how to masturbate!"
"I have quite a few luxuries…," Mickey blushed. "I'm not very satisfied with my sex life though. Harry flatters himself into thinking other women find him desirable! When he mentioned swapping I encouraged this interest. A dike I know in the Village assured me I could have some wild sex in a swap group. She claimed a smart butch could make every girl in the club without any trouble. Joyce even told me the men would enjoy watching. So naturally when Harry brought up the subject of swapping I appeared interested."
"Joyce had been right. It's fantastic the amount of homosexual activity that goes on in swapping. At our first swap session two men put on a demonstration of how two men could sodomize one another by jabbing their things in each other's rectums. Harry got so hot watching that he rubbed himself off on a rather corpulent woman's buttocks. There were sixteen of us in a circle watching the demonstration. It cost us about $45 a month but that paid the rent on the secluded cabin, and for our booze and food!"
"I made the scene with three guys that night B… f" Mickey blushed. "It was boresome but I didn't mind it when they performed oral love on me. I pretended innocence when the topic of girl-girl sex finally came up. One of the straight wives tried to maneuver me into a lesbian affair with all of the men watching. Poor woman-she got the surprise of her life when I clamped my hot lips around her palpitating clitoris!"
"Ummmm-sugar…!" Arlene gasped. "Do you have a sexy mouth! Ahaaaaa!"
"I'm inexperienced…!," Mickey laughed. "But willing to learn. Jeez-are you creamy!"
"Harry was getting a real ‘bang' out of watching me make it with a girl. Harry's eyes bugged out as this bleached blond masturbated his curving dong! I deliberately looked awkward licking -Arlene's twat/I didn't want any of the men suspecting I was a hot-blooded lez. Believe me-mating pussy from between a married woman's thighs with both of our husbands watching-is a groovy thrill. Every dike wants to take a straight woman away from her husband. This experience gave me the chance to do it! With the men watching-no less!"
"Everything-but everything-goes on in a swap session. It reminded me of how four or five girls used to make love to one gal in prison. At these swaps I'd be mouthing a pussy and another girl would eat me out. It was wild! I lured one married woman into the bedroom for a prolonged session of 'flat-fucking.' First I went down on her and got her hot enough to let me do anything. This was a hot sexy blonde about twenty-two. She was lubricated enough to have gone of f with a porcupine. I had her creamed up good. The slightest touch sent her up her own erotic tree! I kissed her soft lips. I rubbed my body on top of hers. I think Darlene thought I was a man because she kept reaching down between my thighs as if to place a tool inside herself!"
"No… no… darling…!" I whispered. "Not that way. Let me show you a much better way!"
"Oh… ummmm… love me…!," Darlene gasped, "Oh-stick it in-do it now!"
"My burning flesh touched Darlene's…," Mickey gasped. "I began to push my own pulsating clitoris down gently against hers. Our two sensitive buttons were being mashed together. I began to make thrusting motions. Pressing my buttocks against the mattress. I began to move in rhythmic circular motions causing an arousing friction to be created between our hot genitaiia! While our twin clitorises swelled it felt like we were rubbing two pricks together. The sensations got so wild that Darlene began groaning loud enough to be heard in the other room."
"Lookee-here…!," A guy named Mark shouted, touching his own aching meat-stick. "Look, at those gals go to it!"
"Look at Darlene respond…," Harry gasped, wide-eyed at my aggressiveness. "You'd think my wife was shoving the real thing into her!"
"It would be even better…,"… Rose giggled, "if Mickey were wearing an artificial dong! I've got one tucked away in a drawer somewhere. A big black one with straps! Let me find it. Hon-eey… get the camera. My movie camera. Let's get an action shot! I hope to hell I can find that damned rubber peter. It would be a perfect companion-at a time like this!"
"A camera zeroed in on us. Darlene was ripping and tearing her sharp fingernails down my flesh. She drew blood. Darlene was moving so fast under me that I thought she was going nutty. I jabbed my clitoris down on hers. All of a sudden we both exploded. Our passion juice flowed like wine from a punctured keg!"
"Hold on… Mickey…," Joe, Rosie's husband, stated. "Strap this silly thing on. Let's find a willing candidate for a girl-screw!"
"A broad named Adrian was elected because she never volunteered for any lesbian activities. I got the thrill of poking that damn rubber peter into her. Let me say right now it was a very artificial thrill for me. The only fun I got was when the rubber dick rubbed against my own clitoris. It wasn't half as much fun as flesh-to-flesh contact. One thing about swapping groups though. You pretty much have to go along with the wishes of the crowd. Anyway you care to look at it there are ample opportunities for lesbian activity in any swap group if you don't mind swinging with guys too. I poked that damn thing into Adrian long enough to make her pop off. Then some guy mounted me from behind and jabbed his bulging phallus into my rectum! Fortunately Jerry, even though he was highly intoxicated, had enough sense to reach around in front and manipulate my clitty with his thick finger. It seemed to take him forever to "pop off" inside me."
"Drunk men are funny…," Mickey noted. "They either get a perpetual hard-on that is hard to satisfy or else they can't raise it up enough to even get stiff. With a man drinking you either get too much or not any. That's one, reason I don't complain about Harry's drinking habits. Lots of nights my husband gets so intoxicated that he forgets he's pumping his rod off between my buttocks or on the mattress!"
"I love swapping…," Mickey blushed! "Now and then a guy managed to thrill me with his erection. If he's smart enough to manipulate the root of his tool against my clit he may get a small response. I get a charge out of making it with another guy in front of Harry. I like to think it makes him feel humiliated. But it doesn't. Harry even gets a kick out of indulging in homosexual acts with other men!"
"My greatest thrill came from 'flat-fucking* Darlene. Technically I think it's known as "Venus Observa feminae". Darlene invited me to her plush apartment for coffee during the day while her husband was at work. Since she lives in a crowded high-rise there's little chance her husband will find out about our erotic meetings. Believe me-lots of sensual women invite me to their apartments for coffee."
"I've had a few bad reactions from husbands who found me in their homes making love to their wives…," Mickey noted. "One guy got pretty abusive and asked me to leave his wife alone. Seemed he didn't mind it at parties where others could watch us… but he didn't like his wife being a lesbian in private. After that experience I rented a small apartment in the Village under an assumed name. I take the women I meet at swap parties there so we can have privacy. I don't want anymore jealous husbands breathing down my neck! I keep my play-pen stocked with booze and artificial stimulators which the gals seem to like so well!"
"One dame threatened t‹o blackmail me if I didn't make love to her all the time. For that reason I sometimes set up a camera in a closet with a self-timing device and take indecent photos of me and my partner. Not for blackmail purposes-but to keep me from a scandal! I don't hold these photos over my partners heads. I love the women I take to bed too much for that. It's merely a form of counter-protection in case one tries to blackmail me."
"Believe it or hot-Harry doesn't have the slightest suspicion that I'm a lez. Who would imagine a married woman, with a lovely daughter, who is so outwardly respectable-who would imagine she's a sucking dike? Especially when she goes to such extremes to please her husband?"
"I'm gay to the core…," Mickey admitted. "I do feel a little guilty about how I deceive my husband. I mean there's n$ real physical love between us. I submit and fake elaborate orgasms. It's my duty as Harry's wife to at least try and cooperate in the sex act."
"I don't hate my husband… no! It's difficult to hate a man who is so nice to you. It's not Harry's fault I don't come when we have sex. He sure tries hard enough to thrill me. I swoon in his arms, Sometimes I even become aggressive about the sex act. Harry likes for me to do that. Many times I'll masturbate Harry's penis and get it rigid. Then I'll straddle his belly and mount him in the position of 'coitus more ferrarum'. I literally suck his raging penis into my own hot hole. I slowly begin moving up and down. I'm always careful that he doesn't ejaculate prematurely. My vaginal muscles are firm and they can grip his cock firmly!"
"I like being active during an act of intercourse with my husband! I can finger-screw my own clitty as I move up and down his cock-pole. Harry has a wild time watching me masturbate in front of his very eyes! I get carried away then and sometimes I may really climax as Harry shoots his juice in me!"
"My hubby is a swap nut…," Mickey admitted. "We go to five different swaps a month. That's with five different groups. We swap about three times a week. I make love to just as many women during these sessions as I do men!"
"Swapping is a completely safe way to satisfy homosexual desires. For one, swapping is a wonderful cover-up for a woman's lesbian activities. I can pose as a married woman and still eat cunt to my heart's content without causing a scandal. Another important thing. The wives of the swapping men are a lot more lovely and attractive than the stuff you meet in the gay bars! I like making love to a woman who is heterosexual. I like bringing women out too! I like to think these normal women enjoy me as much as they do their own husbands! I have a ball making love to heterosexual women!"
PSYCHOLOGICAL COMMENT:
In most instances persons who consult me are troubled with problems of a highly emotional or sexual nature. In this case history Mickey Dulaney was a married woman who had, up until now, kept many secrets hidden from her husband.
Mickey admitted she was a confirmed homosexual who used the 'group swaps' as an ideal method of making contact with swinging heterosexual females. Mickey-admitted the women who engaged in bisexual acts in the group swaps were much more attractive and intelligent than the girls one met in local gay bars.
Not all married women are heterosexual. The truth is that many wives are homosexual, and even more are bisexual. Although Mickey submits to relations with both sexes she cannot be classified as 'bisexual' since she derives no pleasure from relations with the opposite sex.
As a qualified psychiatrist noted-'it's not how we act outwardly that counts-but how we feel inwardly.' A promiscuous whore can be a homosexual at heart if she does not enjoy her relations with me and if she longs to share the sexual embrace with other women.
Mickey must be classified as a married homosexual who finds bisexual relations somewhat distasteful but worthy of cultivation due to the fact that swapping leads her to a great number of sex contacts with her own sex.
In THE LESBIAN IN GROUP LOVE Matt and Kathleen Galant distinguish the lesbian from the bisexual…
"Homosexual practices between women have long been referred to as lesbianism, which is taken from the homosexuality attributed to Sappho on the island of Lesbos. The general usage of the word lesbian today is in reference to the female whose only sexual pleasure is obtained in a homosexual relationship with another female. For the purpose of semantics… we must differentiate between the lesbian and the bisexual. The female bisexual, while participating in homosexual acts with other females, also enjoys and engages in heterosexual acts with other males. The true lesbian, on the other hand, can only find sexual fulfillment through a homosexual act and is at least indifferent to, if not repulsed by, any heterosexual contact." (12)
Because Mickey fails to find any satisfaction in the heterosexual act she is a homosexual. Mickey reports incidents of homosexuality in childhood while admitting that she found pleasure with boys during adolescence. My opinion is that Mickey became actively lesbian-oriented after one specific incident of male sadism. Subsequent confinement in a prison environment more thoroughly enforced these feelings of alienation from the opposite sex.
Mickey feels guilty about deceiving her husband. She longs to please him more while enjoying greater pleasure herself. The fact that Mickey can tolerate repeated acts of coitus with different males indicates that she may enjoy some degree of response to the heterosexual embrace.
I feel that extensive psychotherapy may rid Mickey of her hidden but deep-rooted hostilities toward men in general. I feel that Mickey's true responses are temporarily blocked due to one unfortunate incident of sexual sadism.
Mickey genuinely desires to change her sexual orientation so that she may enjoy heterosexual copulation. Otherwise Mickey would not have sought help. Emotionally Mickey loved her husband very much. Through psychotherapy we are hoping that Mickey's feelings may be given more authentic expression. Then Mickey may feel that the sex "act" has become a thrilling mutual response rather than an empty theatrical gesture.